With little communications between men at the whaling and family at home, family life could be very different by the time they returned. Especially if they were overwintering, meaning that the men would be away for 18 months at a time. It was entirely possible that there would be new children that had never met their fathers or brothers. For some families it would take a while to get used to having a male presence in the house again and by the time they had gotten used to it, the men would be setting off back to the whaling again. Sadly, this disconnection was something many families had to face, and it was not a decision that those leaving to work took lightly.
Family members had to divide up the work within the house to ensure everything could still run smoothly. Taking on extra responsibilities, in some places around Scotland this involved fetching water, firewood or peats and taking care of the outside toilet. Often this responsibility fell to teenage children in families. Much like the men doing hard work in South Georgia, families also had a “get on with it” attitude towards their situation.